This is your life… are you who you want to be?

I heard this song for the first time back in North Carolina at a church I used to attend called Lake Forest Church. That place had the most incredible band and they would play some excellent music!! They played this song and it has been sitting in my heart ever since….

I use the question frequently in my coaching sessions because it is a POWER QUESTION:

This is your life, are you who you want to be?

I have asked myself this question for years now, since 2006.

When I heard the song in the church for the first time, I cried. My answer was NO.

Over the years, it has become my litmus test to myself.

  • When I feel like I am not being my authentic self.
  • When I feel like I am going through the rhythm but not really present in my day to day, I ask myself this question.
  • When I let myself down by acting in “my child” instead of being rational and loving, I ask myself this question.

With practice I am now able to quickly pull myself back to the authentic ÅSA.

Are you who you want to be?

If not, what are you going to do about it? Do you really want to keep hiding behind shoulda, coulda, woulda?

This is your life…

If you want help to learn new ways, reach out and I will help you. It would be my honor.

With gratitude,